Hypersensibility vs. Insensibility

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I finally found out what caused my brain functioning disorder.

In my life, I will most likely to deal those people who grew up and educated in USA that also means they are usually more sensitive and possesses cautious/courteous attitude when they talk to you. On the other hand, I also has the chance to get touch with Chinese people or any other people from other country that means they were trained with different educational system and grew up in a different cultural background.

Two examples to show how my brain were long term twisted by live in between these two extremely opposite of "Hyper" vs. "In", and I finally found out why I am always feel dizzy for my brain can not functioning well in handling these two different attitude settings in my life.

The mode of my brain and the way of my thinking need to consistently switch back and forth and it all depends on who I am communicating to. That caused my brain overloaded with switching work; therefore, I almost can not bear any noise.

Any time or any occasion, if I have any chance need to interact with any human, I need to screen that person's background by observe any detail of that person, so I can be prepared on how to talk with them, so I can keep up the quality of two way communication. In long term, this became extra work to my brain. I then choose to eliminating the frequency of human interaction. I currently work on reading and writing my blog and make friends on my on-line reading club.

Two example demonstrate the "Hyper" and the "In":

Hyper:

My builder who runs a company in the construction field, a typical professional and well-trained American man, who always friendly in conversation. Yesterday he felt upset when I was interrupted by my daughter's phone call from school during our conversation in discussing the business of building plan.

His upset is caused by his busy phone calls in the office yesterday, so my interruption to our conversation over the phone became issue drove his attention. He asked me whether I kept him waiting during my daughter's call is because he asked me to wait while he was busy in answering calls in the office.

Usually male will not be so sensitive about this kind of small detail, and I think he must be very tired for his busy day in the office, so I explained to him the time my daughter called is the school off time and she was telling me she wants to go to her friend's home and asking for my permission to go with her friend. The permission asking is because I usually pick her up everyday on time.

People grew up in developed country has better training with courteousness, so usually are sensible with details. Any small detail will cause certain reaction to it. When ego combine with sensitivity, the reaction from a person will cause different level of result; that depends on that person's position and what reaction comes in handy.

In:

A friend from my online book club send an article from his blog , which book club website is built in Taiwan. The blog has spring color background and circle/curvy line design. To my understanding about his English name in USA is a name for male, I do not know would that changed its meaning in Taiwan. With his writing skill, he is a well educated Chinese and knowedgable as well. However, lack of sensitivity on detail checking is very common in developing country.

I did not hesitate writing message to tell him the reason I posted a link to his reading room instead to his blog. Because I think an open mind suggestion is a good quality of being a friend. But I don't for sure can he take this quality as positive or not. Can a man being suggested with different thoughts depends on his cultural background and the environment and family he grew up with?

Many of other Chinese often show insensibility to details in many occasion or their daily lives, I sometimes made mistakes too. I invite your respect and appreciation to I always using my own heritage as negative example, for being a big heritage as Chinese I think this is a way to show our moderated quality and it is a polite way to do so I think. If I using other people as a negative example and cause any damage to the public image to their heritage group from being pick as negative example on my article. That example applying actually became an insult to their group in deed.

See the reason about my brain functioning disorder!